Sometimes after using an escort, and the encounter has ended and they have left, you can feel emotionally down, almost depressed.
Even though the experience, and the sex, was great – it can be a slightly upsetting experience when the escort leaves, as you may of started to feel like you were bonding.
Keep in mind that the majority of escorts have a strict “no relationships with clients” rule, and for them, although the encounter was possibly enjoyable, it was purely a paid for transaction, you paid for a service that they provided you – sex.
Some people feel as strongly after an escort has left, as they do when breaking up with an actual partner with whom they were in a relationship with, even if they only only have had one encounter with that escort.
It is of course difficult to control our emotions, and in no way or we psychiatrists who can advise what you should do if you do feel depressed after your escort leaves.
There have been reports in the media of clients who start stalking their escort, regularly hassling them at their agency or place of work, making repeated phone calls professing their “love” and because of this local law enforcement have had to get involved, safety is paramount to those who offer sex services, thankfully these instances are very rare, but they do happen!
If you are looking to book and use the services of an escort, not having done so before, do keep in mind that you could also potentially feel this way, is booking an escort the right thing for you to do? Or should you choose looking for an actual relationship?
This is not to say that clients and escorts do not form relationships, start dating and in some instances even end up getting married, but in the main, escorting is their profession, and once the experience is over, no matter how enjoyable it was for both of you, they do not have any emotional feelings for you.