And maturity still requires some years and some life experience.
This information predominantly aimed at women who are thinking of becoming an escort.
Firstly having had a few relationships (both sexual and non) with men is a major advantage.
Escort work, like almost anything career, is affected by how you approach it, you will of course have good days and bad days, just like any other type of job.
Research, planning and fully thinking it over will get you pointed in the right direction with less problems.
Of course trial and error works too, but it probably won’t leave you as happy so we don’t recommend just jumping in to being an escort without some serious thought.
If you’re not sure that you want to be an escort, think about some of the following points;
Why do you want to be an escort?
Just wanting to make money isn’t enough of a reason. Wanting an adventure isn’t a good reason either. Being an escort is not always an easy job and your motivation has to be strong enough to sustain you when you have bad days, and you will have them.
Do you have a good support system?
You need to have a few close friends or family members that you can lean on. You need an emotional outlet.
Are you easy going, friendly and approachable?
This is arguably one of the main elements of being an escort, not necessarily just how you look or how great you think you are in bed.
Are you healthy?
You need to find a gynaecologist if you don’t already have one and you need to be open with them, if you have any sexual disease you need to get it sorted and keep getting checked regularly, always practice safe sex!
How flexible is your schedule?
You need a fairly flexible schedule, especially when starting out. This means childcare, transportation and significant others need to be taken care of long before you get an appointment request. It’s very hard to arrange these things at the last minute.
What are your boundaries?
You need to decide your physical/mental/emotional boundaries before you have your first appointment. These aren’t rigid rules but your own personal guidelines to make your work easier for you. And if you have a significant other, these things must be discussed well in advance of any appointments, make sure you are open to and more importantly enjoy the sexual services you offer your clients.
Being an escort will affect your life, sometimes in surprising ways. Think the decision through.